so.. i solved my own problem by searching around on the forum a bit more. after 8 effing years -.-'
the problem i had was that i loaded the nif, resized and loaded the hp script. i then opened the hp in the property>load template submenu in the menu bar.. i never got the angles, ellipses or xyz axis or anything.
i do suggest u do it this way for anyone who doesnt know it yet.
open up the model nif in mpe, resize, load hp and on the right hand menu of the window, click on the + until you get to "Scene Root". click on it and you should have everything in the left hand menu and also the angles on weapons and ellipses on phasers and what not.
i'm already amazed at how i could've possibly missed this and also feel like THIS should be in the mpe readme/tutorial..
i practically used trial and error for a LONG time. i hope i saved someone this little bit of trouble when starting out or has been in this situation for a while..
cheers
hobbs.. you posted while i was writing. and yes, that's what i didn't have
anyways it's how it should be now. thx for the reply regardless