All my IRL friends that have seen the movie enjoyed it, both Trek fans and non-Trek fans alike.
The comic is meant for those of us "Trekkies" who desire to know everything there needs to be, whereas the average moviegoer has no need to read the comic. The average moviegoers wouldn't know who Picard, Data and Geordi are, so what point is it for them to read that, when they don't have to in order to enjoy the movie?
If you can set your mind to that this is now in an alternate timeline, it becomes a whole lot easier to swallow. Rather than spouting out a bunch of garbage that the ship doesn't look like it did in the 60s etc. Objects, People and events are inherently different in this timeline.
"Anything that can happen, does happen, in other parallel universes"
Our decisions determine the outcome of said universe. Whether we turn left at the intersection, or turn right. The outcome is inherently different depending on which decision we make. Yes, the USS Kelvin got destroyed which likely had a major impact on the universe that we know of. But how do we know, there weren't other things that happened differently prior to it's destruction? Perhaps the nazis won the 2nd World War, perhaps the Russians landed the 1st man on the moon etc. All these things taken into account, makes it very easy to accept that this movie is set in an alternate timeline, which may or may not be similar to the one we know.
Bottomline is, that due to essentially making a "blank slate", JJ Abrams and the writers are free to write new stories and adventures for our intrepid heroes. Either re-writing existing stories, or making brand new stories. Perhaps in this timeline, Kirk won't be killed off on Veridian III, and maybe John Harriman won't be such a wuss. The possibilities are limitless.
There are always... possibilities.