I'll just say one last thing about this movie - well, reboots in general - then I'll shut up

This not-a-reboot-but-so-obviously-is thing doesn't work for me. When I look at this current period of rehashing old ideas, the ones that were most successful - for me - were the new two Batman movies, and Battlestar Galactica, the new series. Whether or not you liked the new BSG, one thing remains a fact - and that is that they didn't try to force continuity with a decades old series, which always seems clumsy in the end for me. I prefer an honest reboot that says "yes we're using an old idea but we're doing it from today's perspective. We will not try to make it work with a decades old product that looks completely cheesy nowadays, the old product will have it's own canon and we will have ours". Seriously, why go through all the clumsy time travel attempts of continuity when you can just say "this is the new Trek, it stands on it's own". That way, I wouldn't mind things like Delta Vega, which was originally very far from Vulcan (TOS season 1 episode 3 - they're trying to leave the Galaxy as the Valiant did, run into some sort of Barrier thing, one of the officers starts gaining god like powers so they attempt to maroon him on Delta Vega, which is close by and home to an unmanned fully automated Federation installation), the planet wasn't completely covered in ice, etc, yet in the new trek Spock can observe the destruction of Vulcan from it with his naked eye like it was a moon of it. If it was an honest reboot it wouldn't have to worry about these continuity problems, and frankly it's better not to have to do that when you're redoing something that's about 50 years old..
Long story short, best reboots for me are the clean reboots that only use the basic idea and don't try to be compatible with their old counterparts. Look at Star Wars.. watch them in sequence, and tell me that the complete change in art direction, style, pace, acting style, etc. doesn't seem clumsy and awkward when you're switching between episodes 3 and 4..